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Yesterday, the daughter of a blind date that it fails again, the South Bank area Danzishi Aunt Wang Ou get food could not eat. "Not that her daughter had been a secretary to several CEOs Well, once the second blind date failed, all eight of." Aunt Wang did not understand: "? In the end is the daughter of the work is wrong, or the idea that people have a problem."

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Aunt Wang, 56, and her husband are retired military enterprise workers. Aunt Wang Xiao Fei's daughter 27 years old, 1.65 meters tall, delicate features,chaussures tn, fair-skinned, gestures groomed, workers and neighbors are recognized beauties.

Four years ago, 23-year-old Xiao Fei vocational school, Banan District Lijiatuo candidates to a private enterprise to CEOs secretary.

Aunt Wang enterprise work to retirement, has been engaged in political work and corporate culture and propaganda work, as can speak and write, she was deeply fond of leadership, often leading to write material until after retirement, as well as many of my colleagues introduced her to acquaintances of the private sector do office work. Xiao Fei subtle influence of childhood by his mother, though not very good grades, but after graduating from high school, in the case of employment difficulties, watching a lot of prestigious university graduates Shuaqi at home all day, Xiao Fei has come to the fore,http://www.tfc-charts2.w2d.com/forum/index.cgi, in time to find a copies of a satisfying job, Aunt Wang secretly pleased that her daughter anything.

Especially her daughter after work, not for money,air jordan pas cher, not only to ourselves, because of his daughter's company better efficiency, a few Daqian monthly wages, good benefits, not long before her daughter to become a full white collar, Aunt Wang for his original score is not heavy weight capacity of education and deep sense of accomplishment.

Xiao Fei is a fashion beauty, in a place to stay for a long time, and wanted to change the work environment. For four years, she has changed four work units. But times change jobs, whether in Yuzhong Chaotianmen, or in the high-tech zone or Shapingba District,hogan uomo, Xiao Fei are doing her work - to CEOs secretary.

Failures are due to blind as a secretary

Xiao Fei is a very housekeeping girl, since the work, she scrimped and saved, and then use their savings, in a residential mortgage Nanping a small apartment, Wang Aunt distressed daughter,air jordan, gave her money to pay the renovation. Next, Xiao Fei began to consider their own personal event.

Xiao Fei's first boyfriend, is a vocational sisters when she was introduced. The other is a Area business representatives, a talented. After understanding each other on the other side of the two conditions are satisfied. Can contact soon, her boyfriend that she was a secretary in the enterprise to veterans, and veterans occasionally travel together, her boyfriend became upset, asked her boss often insinuated is not goat. On one occasion, she was ready to notify veterans midnight the next day to travel, her boyfriend persuaded her not to go, because she did not adopt the suggestion of her boyfriend, so she came back after a few days on a business trip, her boyfriend left her a note saying that he was wearing did not want to the "green hat." Xiao Fei sad I do not want to not trust what their boyfriend explained, so quietly parted.

Next, Xiao Fei who have had a blind date seven times, each time to each other as soon as I heard that she gave the other four executives as a secretary, not a euphemism break is gone after meeting below. All blind date object represents - optimistic about her looks and temperament, she is intolerable boss secretary identity.

"Now, my daughter is afraid of talking about a blind date." Aunt Wang said that blind date after each failure, the daughter of a few days to be depressed. Several times, the daughter of the unit's work also resigned, taking into account the work to find a salary so high is not easy, after she and her husband an advice, coupled with corporate CEOs enlighten her daughter to leave work before continuing.

"My secretary is always a pain."

"This is very unfair what happened to her daughter." Aunt Wang said, there are two blind daughter, the man also inquire about her daughter's side is where's the money to buy a house mortgage, called my husband are retired workers,piumini moncler, coupled with her daughter income certainly can not afford housing, suspected her daughter is not being CEOs nurturing. "After much deliberation,nike tn pas cher, do not blame the man of small mind, is secretary to blame."

Lift own secretarial work due to dry repeatedly failed blind date thing, Xiao Fei sigh,http://www.biology.kyushu-u.ac.jp/~chromosome/gwbbs/gwbbs.cgi, said his secretary just to find a dry bowl of rice to eat, not knowing in the end was wrong in the where? She said that people have dignity, in order to avoid scandal-ridden, to the four veterans during a secretary, she was his wife are getting along with each of the veterans was very good. CEOs wife and colleague who had never whither wondered why blind people do not understand anything,hogan 2014, so easily say goodbye. "To put it plainly,woolrich parka, they simply secretary and lover, mistress equate." She paused, "said Secretary of work to make a living this will always be my pain."

Xiao Fei told reporters that she was adjusting the mentality hesitate in the future also continue to do secretarial work.

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10 do not want to marry a man seven secretary

Would you marry a female secretary when his wife do? To solve this problem, the reporter for 10 unmarried men to do a survey. Survey shows that seven men made it clear that this would not marry a female secretary wife Xiao Fei, an expressed willingness to marry such a woman secretary Xiao Fei wife, two said the possible consideration. Expressed reluctance to marry wives of men believed that female secretary, secretary of veterans,http://www.zsoso.net/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=31079&fromuid=2590, most of them suffered a "hidden rules", it was enough to be tolerated.

"Despite girlfriend is innocent, but to others introduced his girlfriend occupation secretary, subconsciously you feel the urge to wear a green hat." Now the city to teach in a university Zhang said: "In the eyes of many people, female secretary is the boss's lover, mistress, married female secretary when his wife,http://bbs.cnw.com.cn/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, will be drowned people's gossip. "Zhang believes that now the society's" hidden rules "too much,woolrich parka, look for the secretary and actor when his wife, is simply to find their own pumping. Other reasons for not wishing to marry six female secretary's wife,http://www.sponavihawaii.com/Default.aspx?tabid=155&D=2014.1.12, consistent with Wang's comments.

However, a garment factory in Yubei leaflets when designers think when girls secretary general is very gentle and kind, will take care of people. "Not all women are CEOs secretary lover,piumino moncler, mistress again, I do not care about the girl's past - just follow me, all over again, life was clear vain, I am willing to let this person When my wife. "leaflet says wife marry a female secretary.

Another two men ambiguous statement said, as the case may be, "it depends on what kind of enterprises and departments to the secretary, the most important is the girlfriend of the character, not a pole killing people."

I have something to say to be the unspoken rules of just a few who continue to prove innocence secretary

Wang Yu, director of community marbles Street neighborhood

Secretarial work is a good job, but because of the social secretary of the opposite sex "demonized" A lot of people always like to put the boss's secretary and lover, mistress equate, for a male boss services secretary, To withstand the risk of this profession, that is subjected to someone else's mistake, so blind as Xiao Fei repeatedly encounter the same failure.

I think, do not rule out a small number of female secretary boss suffered a "hidden rules", but not when it comes to female secretary, put the boss's lover, mistress linked to this concept is essentially a vocational bias,http://tonzawa.godream.ne.jp/cgi-bin/aska/aska.cgi, misunderstanding Even discrimination brought consequences, you will find the same as Xiao Fei awkward blind date. In fact, many female secretary notice of management, good character, if because of this profession, you obliterate a beautiful love, it is a little silly.

To prove innocence to continue as secretary

Zhou Xiaoyan Chongqing Normal University associate professor of psychology, marital counseling expert

Secretarial career has always been a "dubious career,abercrombie outlet italia," especially female secretary,http://gifu.awa-nav.com, with his young, beautiful and competent to do the job, there are a few really want to Pretty Woman female secretary at work in close contact with the boss evolution of the distance of the physical contact, thus becoming the boss's lover,woolrich donna, mistress, or even "host" instead wife became his wife. Because few such professional people destroyed the reputation of the entire profession,http://www.takakoclub.jp/MapBbs/gabbskj.cgi?mode=res&no=345, resulting in eight blind Xiao Fei embarrassing failure.

Xiao Fei secretarial work if you really like, do not give up, with practical actions to prove in this career manifested innocence, change the secular bias. A long time, people really know her, but also worry there is no real love?

What do you think of discrimination against female secretary blind? Do you think the secretary is not a dubious career? Please visit the newspaper website or call our hotline 966 988 comments. (Reporter intern Li Fenglan the Army)